Swimming in the "main-stream"

T. Bunkasem

When we are in a new environment, some of us adapt better than others. Whether in frustration, excitement, or fear, they are feelings associated with culture shock. And it is normal. With time and familiarity, we all adapt. Knowing the language and the customs helps to ease the transition from one culture to another. But no matter how adaptable we are in the new environment, not all of us feel one hundred percent at home. In the process of transition, some of us adapt by changing our names, looks, or attitudes with the hope to fit in the mainstream. For example, Sophy changed to Sophia or Bunrith changed to Bob. Some might think that Sophia sounds “cooler” than Sophy or Bob sounds better than Burnrith. But what do these names say about who you really are? While others still try to hang on to their culture or traditions. Still, others don’t realize the importance of their heritage believing that once in in the “mainstream,” you are no longer in the pond. Or like the saying goes, “When in Rome do as the Romans do.” Swimming in the mainstream is not easy. Adapting to new thing never is. But knowing your heritage helps to give you a sense of belonging in a new environment.

Volume I: Issue I April/May 1996